I think that one of the most important things a person can be in life is nice. It is such a simple thing, but can have a huge impact. I have always tried to be nice, to do the right thing to never judge too hastily and to always think of others feelings. It is something Stuart and I have worked hard to try teach our children, by both our words and our actions. Some time ago a situation arose and I made a decision. It was not an easy decision to make but after giving the matter lots of thought I chose to do the right thing, I chose to be nice. fast forward a year and my decision has gone on to cause hurt and upset to people I love dearly. I ,and they, know that I acted with the best of intentions but I cannot shake the feeling of guilt I have. I am now faced with another choice and no matter what I choose to do, I will be hurting someone.
I am going to take a break from my blog for a little while, I will still keep up with commitments.
Sadie x
Stitching up a Storm
31 comments:
I'm sorry for what you are going through. Sending (((big hugs))) your way!
Dear SAdie, please know I am thinking of you and sending hugs :)
((((hugs))))
follow your heart Sadie.
{{{Sadie}}}
I'm a fairly new visitor to your blog Sadie, as you know, but I'd like to send you my good wishes and hope that you return soon. Take care.
Sometimes life throws these things at us Sadie. I'm sure whatever you decide it will make you a stronger person. I look forward to your return, I can't imagine blogland without you or your lovely blog! XXX
I am sorry you are going through a rough time of it. Take care and know that you will be missed. I look forward to your bloggin return. And remember that there will always be times when you can't please everyone. That no matter what choice you make someone will disagree. That's is human nature. Just do what is right for you and know in your heart that you did the right thing as you saw it.
Take care.
Good thoughts and BIG ((((HUGS))) comming your way Sadie!
I am so sorry your going through a rough time right now. Just do what is in your heart and what is best for you and your family.
Take Care my friend!
So sorry to hear that your are having some issues dear...we will be thinking of you and your family and wishing for the best! Come back soon!
HAPPY STITCHIN'
Terri
((((Sadie)))) I am so sorry you are going through these tough issues. Take the time you need and we'll be here if/when you decide to return.
Hope things work out for you.x
*hugs*
Sorry you're having a crappy time , hope you manage to work things out to the best for you and yours . Take care . XXX
I hope an easier solution appears for you. Good luck and I'll keep you in my thoughts.
Denise
Sorry to hear you are having a rough time Sadie. As someone already said no matter what we say or do we can never please everyone.
Take care of yourself, sending postive thoughts and hugs.
*hugs* look after yourself Sadie.. sometimes in life we have to make decisions that we really don't want to make. I wish you strength!
Try to stay positive
Hugs again
Hope things do find a way to work out....sending positive thoughts our way.
Sorry to hear about the tough times. Hope everything works out.
((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))
Oh, no! I can't imagine what could have happened--sounds terrible! Please know that we're rooting for you here and understand that you have to do what you have to do!
Come back soon! :D
Life is all about choices...I'm sure you'll make the right ones..
Thinking about you, take care and hope to see you back soon...
Hugs
Erna
Oh Sadie, sorry to hear that you are going to be facing a difficult decision. I hope you can get things sorted out.
Take care!
{{{HUGS}}} Sadie. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.
You are in my thoughts & prayers. A big hug to you. Take care, my dear.
Sadie just follow your heart you will come up with the right answer.
Hugs
Mary Louise
I'm sorry things haven't turned out well. Take all the time you need - we'll be waiting when you come back. Hugs.
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(((((hugs))))) Sadie - so sorry to hear that things are not good for you at the moment. It is true that we can't please everyone all of the time, but I know how it feels to think you are doing the right thing then have it thrown back in your face. I hope it gets resolved and that you and your family are able to be happy with the decisions you have made - you need to think about yourselves first and then others. I really enjoy reading your blog - it won't be the same when yours doesn't rise to the top of my blog list. Take care and hope you're back soon xxx
Sadie, I am sorry to hear that you're going through a rough patch. Sometimes it seems like you can't win for losing, right? :P I'll be thinking of you! Hang in there.
Hate this for you. Nice does matter but I totally understand what you are going thru. Big hugs. I'll miss you while you're away..
Sadie,
It sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now that weighs heavy in your mind. I know what you are saying though, this year has been bad in my household as well because I had to stand up for myself and in turn everything went really bad and there is no way to get back on track. Follow your heart and I hope that in time things look up for everyone.
Sadie - sending you big cyber {{{hugs}}}. Follow your heart and if others don't agree with it shrug it off as an 'oh well'. I've had a situation in the past that sounds like it may have turned out the way your describing. Know that you are not alone and that we will all miss you while you take a break from things. Come back to us soon.
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